#1 STD & Herpes Dating Site & App With Million Positive Singles

Why Choose Positive Singles?

STD-Friendly Community

Specifically for singles with herpes, HIV, HPV, and other STDs.

Privacy & Discretion

Anonymity options and secure messaging for your peace of mind.

Verified Profiles

Profiles are manually reviewed to help reduce fake accounts.

Supportive Resources

Access blogs, forums, and advice to navigate dating with an STD.

Advanced Filters

Find matches by STD type, lifestyle, location, and relationship goals.

Mobile App (iOS & Android)

Stay connected anytime, anywhere with our dedicated app.

Where Understanding Meets Connection

Established Since 2001

The first and most trusted STD dating platform.

Millions of Members Worldwide

A thriving community across the US and globally.

No Stigma Zone

A judgment-free space for people with herpes, HIV, HPV, and other STDs.

Privacy-Focused Environment

Control what you share and who sees your profile.

Supportive Culture

Find not only dates but friendships, advice, and community support.

How Positive Singles Works

Sign Up Free

Create a profile with your photos and what you're looking for.

Set Your Privacy & Preferences

Choose your STD type(s), relationship goals, and visibility settings.

Explore & Connect

Use filters for location, lifestyle, and shared experiences.

Message & Chat Safely

Engage with verified members through private messaging.

Upgrade to Premium (Optional)

Boost visibility and access priority messaging features.

Meet & Build Real Connections

Start with safe online communication and move offline when comfortable.

Redefining Love Beyond Labels

Positive dating isn't just about finding someone—it's about discovering a community where your health status becomes a bridge to deeper connections, not a barrier. Here, authenticity replaces anxiety, and understanding trumps judgment.

Why Our Community Thrives:

Authentic connections built on mutual understanding
Zero tolerance for stigma or discrimination
Expert-moderated environment ensuring quality interactions
Comprehensive support resources and educational content

Who Joins PositiveSingles?

Singles Living with STDs

Individuals with herpes, HIV, HPV, hepatitis, and other STDs looking for genuine connections without stigma or judgment in a supportive community environment.

People looking for Acceptance

Those who value honesty, empathy, and understanding while looking for partners who appreciate authenticity over superficial dating experiences and conversations.

Supportive Partners

Open-minded individuals who prioritize emotional connection, care about meaningful relationships, and understand that health status doesn't define someone's worth or character.

Featured Profiles on The Best STD Dating Site

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About PositiveSingles

Since 2001, PositiveSingles has been the world's leading dating platform for individuals living with STDs, creating a safe haven where millions find love without judgment. Featured on CNN, BBC, and major media outlets, we've facilitated over 60,000 successful relationships while maintaining the highest privacy standards. Our community spans globally, offering comprehensive support through forums, educational resources, and verified profiles. We believe your health status doesn't define your worth or limit your capacity for meaningful connections. Join our thriving community where understanding, acceptance, and genuine love flourish daily.

Hot Places to Meet Positive Singles Across America

New York City

Home to over 45,000 active members, NYC's diverse positive singles community reflects the city's vibrant energy. From Manhattan professionals to Brooklyn artists, find meaningful connections in coffee shops, Central Park meetups, and exclusive member events. Our NYC chapter hosts monthly support groups and social mixers in safe, welcoming venues.

Los Angeles

The entertainment capital boasts 38,000+ members who understand that true beauty comes from within. From Hollywood Hills to Santa Monica Beach, LA's positive singles create authentic connections beyond the superficial. Join hiking groups in Griffith Park, beach volleyball teams, and wellness workshops designed specifically for our community.

Chicago

The Windy City's 28,000 members embody Midwestern warmth and genuine hospitality. From Navy Pier strolls to Cubs games, Chicago's positive singles build lasting relationships rooted in shared values. Our local coordinators organize seasonal events, from summer lakefront gatherings to cozy winter book clubs in Lincoln Park.

Houston

Everything's bigger in Texas, including our 32,000-strong Houston community's heart for acceptance. From the Museum District to the Heights, positive singles connect over BBQ, rodeos, and NASA space center visits. Our Houston members enjoy exclusive access to private dining events and outdoor adventure groups exploring East Texas.

Miami

The Magic City's 25,000 members bring Latin passion and beach vibes to positive dating. From South Beach art walks to Everglades eco-tours, Miami's community celebrates life with infectious enthusiasm. Enjoy salsa dancing classes, yacht club meetups, and exclusive access to private beach parties designed for meaningful connections.

Seattle

The Emerald City's 22,000 progressive members value authenticity and environmental consciousness. From Pike Place Market tours to Mount Rainier hiking expeditions, Seattle's positive singles bond over coffee culture and outdoor adventures. Join tech networking events, sustainable living workshops, and cozy bookstore meetups in Capitol Hill.

Connect Anytime, Anywhere

Experience seamless connections through our advanced platform features. Whether you're at home or on the move, stay engaged with your community through innovative tools designed for meaningful interactions.

Instant secure messaging with end-to-end encryption

Private photo galleries with selective sharing

Advanced privacy controls and anonymous browsing

Video chat capabilities for deeper connections

Local community events and meetup coordination

Positive Singles Pricing

Free Membership

$0/month

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Gold Membership

$29.95/month

All free features
Unlimited messaging
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Platinum Membership

$34.95/month

All Gold features
Profile highlighting
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Advanced privacy controls
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Frequently Asked Questions

Is PositiveSingles a real STD dating site?

Yes, since 2001. We are the pioneer and most trusted STD dating platform.

Which STDs are included?

Herpes, HIV, HPV, and more. We welcome all singles living with STDs.

Can I stay anonymous?

Yes, with nickname and privacy settings. You control what information to share.

Is the app free?

Yes, with optional premium features for enhanced experience.

How do I upgrade?

Via website or app store. Multiple payment options available.

Can I find friendships, not just dating?

Yes. Many members find supportive friendships and community connections.

Is my health information private?

Yes, fully confidential. We never share your personal health information.

How many members are active?

Millions worldwide. Our community spans across the US and globally.

Can HIV+ and herpes+ users date here?

Absolutely. We welcome all singles living with STDs.

Are fake profiles banned?

Yes, we actively monitor and remove fake profiles to ensure authenticity.

How do I delete my account?

Contact our support team or use the account settings to deactivate your profile.

Is customer support available?

Yes, 24/7 customer support for all members via email and live chat.

Real Love Stories from Our Community

"When I received my HSV diagnosis at 28, I thought my dating life was over. The stigma felt overwhelming, and I withdrew from social situations completely. A friend recommended PositiveSingles, and it literally saved my emotional well-being. Within three months, I connected with Michael, who understood my journey without judgment. We bonded over hiking, shared values, and genuine acceptance. Today, we're engaged and planning our wedding for next spring. This platform didn't just help me find love—it helped me rediscover my self-worth and confidence. The community support here is unmatched, and I've made lifelong friendships beyond just romantic connections."

Sarah & Michael

Denver, CO

"After my HPV diagnosis, dating felt impossible. Traditional apps made me anxious about disclosure conversations, and I faced rejection after rejection. PositiveSingles changed everything by creating a space where honesty comes first. I met Lisa through the platform's book club feature—we discovered our shared love for mystery novels and progressive politics. Our first coffee date lasted six hours, and we've been inseparable since. What started as friendship blossomed into deep love built on mutual understanding and respect. We now volunteer together at local health awareness events, turning our experiences into advocacy. This community taught us that our conditions don't define us—our character, dreams, and capacity for love do."

David & Lisa

Portland, OR

"Living with HIV for eight years, I'd given up on finding someone who could see past my status to the person I truly am. PositiveSingles introduced me to Maria during a virtual cooking class event. We laughed over our kitchen disasters and shared stories about our passions—her art, my music production. The platform's video chat features helped us build genuine intimacy before meeting in person. Our relationship grew naturally, free from the fear of judgment or rejection. We've now been together for two years, and Maria has become my greatest supporter and creative collaborator. Together, we're launching a nonprofit to support newly diagnosed individuals. This platform gave us more than love—it gave us purpose and partnership."

James & Maria

Austin, TX

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